We are living in unprecedented times as we experience the impact of the coronavirus (COVID-19). There are many opinions on whether the steps taken have been excessive, but when you are dealing with a pandemic, being complacent can be dangerous. This disease has drastic consequences for individuals with compromised immune systems, as well as those over the age of 60. Individuals living with Alzheimer’s disease and other related dementias are at an increased risk as well, and it is vital to take all steps necessary to ensure their health and well-being.
We are aware that many care facilities have begun restricting visitors and have implemented new visiting guidelines. Dementia day and respite programs have also begun to make changes, with some closing for the next several weeks. This can create additional stress to an already taxing situation for the person with the disease, their care partners, and families.
If you find yourself in this situation, we ask that you please be mindful that in addition to the stress you are experiencing, the daily routine of your loved one is also changing. Your loved one may be feeling anxious, scared, depressed, confused and may not understand what is happening in the current situation. These feelings of uncertainty may be displayed in any of the following ways:
- Restlessness
- Pacing
- Yelling
- Searching and rummaging around for something
- Refusing to do something
Tips for deescalating feelings of uncertainty and agitation include:
- Remain calm and comforting
- Do not get angry or criticize your loved one
- Redirect the person’s attention to another activity or topic
- Minimize the stimuli in the environment (i.e. turn off the news on TV)
- Reassure your loved one that you are there, ask if you can help, and let them know they are safe
- Play their favorite music
We also encourage you to follow the recommendations from public health officials to keep your home and community safe and disease free.
- Wash your hands often with soap and water for at least 20 seconds. If soap and water are not available, use an alcohol-based hand sanitizer.
- Avoid touching your eyes, nose and mouth with unwashed hands.
- Avoid touching your loved ones face with unwashed hands.
- Avoid close contact with people who are sick.
- Stay home when you are sick.
- When coughing or sneezing, cover your mouth and nose with flexed elbow or tissue.
- Clean and disinfect frequently touched objects and surfaces.
Please take a moment to click on the links below to follow us on Facebook and Instagram, as we will be posting activity and stress-relief ideas to assist you during this time.
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Please take good care of yourself and your loved ones.
Warmest regards,
Laura Sutherland, LMSW
Founder & Executive Director